This is in continuation to my post Lessons from Ira Singhal: UPSC Topper 2015 , which is inspired from the interview of Ira Singhal by Ravish Kumar of NDTV
She repeated the message of Bhagwat Gita that you must perform
your duties without worrying for the fruits of your action. Many will not agree
as they feel that the result motivates them. But, you can see how this lady has
topped one of the toughest exams by practicing this philosophy.
I couldn't believe that the interview was of an UPSC Topper.
Normally, these interviews of successful people are focused on their struggle
and hardship. But, the interview of this lady was different. She gave me hope,
encouragement and motivation to see beyond my own problems. How she has
turned her problems into opportunities was worth admiring.
When she was asked about her physical condition, I found that she
never glorified her special needs; she explained that her hands have restricted
movement and her spinal cord is of S- shaped and not straight. But, she
maintained that she feels normal about herself. She told that everyone has one
problem or another, only thing is that her problems are more visible than
others. She felt that her condition was far better than those who don’t have
parents. This is awesome.
How can someone to so resolved, calm and composed? She was a true
epitome of character and has shown exemplary attitude. I was not so impressed
not just because she had topped one of the toughest exams; rather I am in awe
of her positive frame of mind. How she has never back down in life when so
called normal people often don’t achieve even an iota of what she has
accomplished till date. Her Interview should be shown to all the students,
their parents and teachers. You can find it on you tube by searching “Ira
Singhal Interview by Ravish NDTV Prime Time”.
When asked about her motivation to become an Indian Administrative
Services (IAS) officer, she told that as an Indian Revenue Service (IRS)
officer, she has to do more of office works and she always wanted to do good
for the people by doing more field works. She told that she didn’t want to
become an IAS officer for name, fame, power or the determination to prove anything.
In fact she told that she has nothing to prove and is doing something just
because she wanted to do more social works for the people. I am working in a
Construction company and I am in a profile where I have to visit site often
though I work in an office.
I can understand how courageous and determined she is, just by
listening to these words as field work takes a toll on the physical health. Had
she been an ordinary person then IRS was a much better option for her that IAS.
When she was asked how she will feel if she will be transferred frequently. She
told that everyone who aspires to become an IAS knows that they have to live in
Suitcase, i.e. they have to be mentally prepared for all those things.
I felt that she has shown selflessness when we are more and more
obsessed about ourselves. She hangs out with her friends like every other
person and is an inspiration for differently abled and so-called normal people.
I am proud to say that she is more normal than I am and she has changed my
perception about people with special needs. I am feeling that it is the social
conditioning which makes them feel bad about themselves. Everyone is not as
great as Ira and definitely she will change the way we think about those who do
things differently. Even when we feel bad for their physical condition, we
cause more harm than good as we must let them feel normal. We all have a lot to
learn from this lady.
Now some feelings from my heart for her
Whenever, I will be tempted to take an easy route in life, I will
remember you. You have studied not to get selected in handicapped quota, rather you topped the exam as you
walked the talk that you feel normal. You are not-handicapped but an extraordinary person with whom
everyone can relate. I feel that I am an avid book reader as I have read around
30-40 books, what should I call you who must have read 100-200 plus books. You
have kept good company of your family, friends, and good literature. You have
kept yourself so engaged in doing good things that you don’t have any time to
find fault in yourself or others. You are absolutely a great personality. I
have written last night about the Lessons I learned from you in my post Lessons Learnt from Ira Singhal: UPSC Topper 2015. But,
I felt that there was more that I wanted to write about you and so I am back with
this post on you.
Thank you for being so upbeat about life. I have already informed
in detail about you to my mother and my brother. But, I was not surprised that
they knew your name as by topping in UPSC 2015, you have become a household
name. Every year someone tops UPSC, IIT, CAT, AIPMT and many more exams like
Boards. This is not the first time I have watched the interview of any topper.
But, this is the first time when I got so much influenced by someone. I am more
impressed with your positive attitude and crystal clear frame of mind than
anything else like you are differently abled or an UPSC Topper.
Definitely, we were fortunate to know you just because you cleared
UPSC and that too as a Topper. But, the best thing about you is your attitude.
You are crystal clear about your thoughts and actions. You are not like me who
in the past has felt bad for not getting into IIT and took some time to get
over it and move on in life. I have positive attitude but sometimes I get affected by petty issues. I can proudly say that my life
will be different from this moment.
BY- Rohan Sinha
Superb article... I am too much influenced by Ira Singhal as well as your blog.
ReplyDeleteKeyur Shah
superb article, even i am very much influenced by Ira singhal....she is my role model now :-)
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