Feels Good to motivate someone

An interesting discussion on my answer on quora to the question " What are the things that Introverts enjoy?" 

Click on the link to see point no. 1 to 18… one person commented on point  #19 and so have mentioned that below

19. Spending quality time with family and loved ones – I have kept the best for the last. I love to spend quality time with my family, friends and loved ones. It is really the true investment of our life.

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He: All points are true instead #19(for me), I hate sometimes to engage in this activity, they are always talking about the tensions, problems in their life, ways to save money, lecturing on how to live life, etc, who loves it, but I still do spend time with them, hoping something to change at some day.

Me: Sorry for some free gyan: I can understand this as we all at some point in our life feel disconnect with people who love us.

I assure you that one day, you will also realize their point of view.

Anyways, I will suggest you to ignore the things that you don't like about them and always remind yourself about all the good things they have done for you.

If you can change your response to their behaviour and try to emphatically understand what is their concern then you will start to enjoy spending a lot of time with them.

And, believe me that will change their behaviour to your surprise.

Hope I have not offended you by my free advice.

He: No, I guess you are right, let me try this on sunday, I'll try to understand there problems, at least, I'll nod as a response instead of ignoring, btw, thanks, FYI, I am never offended by anybody, I just do what I feel right, and ignore the rest & I like your answer, I'll use it. :)