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6 Dec 2015

Human Behavior: Why do I envy others who are successful in their field?

Congratulation to you for identifying and accepting that you are envious of others who are doing exceedingly well in their life.

It takes real guts to accept our shortcomings like Adriana Heguy has rightly mentioned. Many of us are never able to do it. As you have done it, half the problem is already solved. The other half can be dealt with by considering the following piece of advice.
  1. Be alone and try to figure out what makes you envy others.
  2. Do you want name, fame, money or anything else.
  3. You said that you envy a good musician, a beautiful actress,etc
  4. What you see or hear is different from reality.
  5. The musician who is making you envious might be using softwares and have took 100's of retakes to produce the music which you are listening.
  6. The actress whom you feel is beautiful might not be even an iota of what you are. They look beautiful because of makeup, excellent dressing sense and supporting staffs, who make them more pleasing.
  7. You are  imperfectly perfect so never compare yourself with anyone else.
  8. Follow James Altucher's advice and  let the envy go and replace it with a sense of respect for those who are doing well as it brings positivity in your life.
  9. Find your passion, follow your dream and do things that make you happy. I have a list of things that makes me happy. You can see my list and can make your list 19 things that introverts do to enjoy life?
  10. Do things you love to feel beautiful, blessed and blissful.  Be focused on your purpose in life. Chase your dreams! STAY HUNGRY STAY FOOLISH
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